BE WISE WHEN CHOOSING YOUR FRIENDS

Sometimes when you are in a dark place,you may think you have been buried but actually you have been planted

When you are in a dark place,that is when you know who and what you mean to people...There are people that are in your life because of what they get and benefit from you  and there are those that genuinely love you but they are very few...The ones that are with you for their benefit alone are going to think your darkness means you have been buried and nothing else can come out of you and they will want nothing to the with you and they will run as fast as their physical and spiritual legs can carry them

The ones that genuinely love you are the people you see in your dark stage,they might not even know you are just being buried and your blooming days is just ahead of you but they will be there with you every step of the way.

They are the ones that are watering you in your planting stage so you can blossom into the best of you yet...don’t forget to keep these ones near because they are the ones that are truly your friend...

But the truth is most of our friends(>80%) will leave.Even the ones you never thought could do so might be the first one to leave because it’s no longer convenient for them to be your friend...Always use your planting period to knowwho and what you mean to people because they might come back with one flimsy excuse as to why they did what they did just because you are now in your blooming period and they are back for your fruits

BE WISE WHEN CHOOSING YOUR FRIENDS 

BACK AFTER ALL

The last time I posted was almost three years ago...A lot has happened during this period but it’s all been for a reason and for one lesson or the other.Sometimes,am on my writing pad and I wanted to write so much but my emotions were so much and too high to write one thing or the other and I even wanted to start putting my words on a video since I couldn’t write them and there was a day I was all dressed up and I was in my office ready for the shoot but I was still in a place where I couldn’t do it but all in all,it’s been a beautiful and wonderful three years because at the end of it all there is a light...So no matter what you are going through or no matter how hard you think it is,there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.

KEYS TO LONG TERM SUCCESS

Everybody wants to be successful in life, we all want success to be attributed to who we are but there are different type of success. They are SHORT TERM SUCCESS AND LONG TERM SUCCESS. Nobody want to have a short term success,we all desire a long term success but there are keys to having a long term success. They are
1. EDUCATION:- Education is very important in one's journey through life. It might be formal or informal.

2. SKILLS:- What skills do you have that you have not discovered and what skills have you discovered that you have not developed? Your natural skills are inbuilt so if you focus on them,you will shine through and through.

3. LIFE EXPERIENCE:- Don't allow yourself to be influence in the negative direction because of bad experiences you might have and don't allow yourself to think you can't achieve it because you have tried to do something before and it failed. NEVER DWELL ON YOUR PAST NEGATIVE EXPERIENCE.

4. PERSONAL CHERACTER (Personal development ):- What kind of cheracter do you have? How do you see yourself? In what light do you see yourself? Do you see yourself achieving your dreams or do you see yourself as the one who couldn't achieve a previous little goal talkless of achieving this big thing you are thinking? Do you see yourself as the one that never gives up no matter what happens or do you see yourself as the one that is constantly failing no matter what you do? Do you know that the two sentences means the same thing? But it depends on how you see it. SO WHAT IS YOUR CHERACTER TOWARDS YOUR DREAM???

RUNNING INTO WALLS

Some people are living life without a goal or a vision, they just take life as it comes and then say to themselves "I don't know why this is happening to me" or they say I have a lot of things I want to acieve but they never really start on any of them. Some even refer to themselves as being "unlucky" but the question is "ARE THEY TRULY UNLUCKY OR THEY DON'T HAVE A GOAL OR VISION OF WHAT TRULY WANT" Because people who don't understand the importance of goals are always running into walls. The wall is what they termed as being "unlucky" YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHAT YOU WANT BEFORE YOU CAN GO AFTER IT. Be sure of that dream or that business idea and then go after it with full force. Don't do it because someone else is doing it because you don't know the kind of goal or vision that person has for herself or himself or the conditions they are in while they set it which might not favour you because IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHERE YOU ARE GOING,YOU MIGHT END UP SOMEPLACE ELSE.

WHO DO YOU SPEND YOUR TIME WITH?

Who you are today is as a result of what you said concerning yourself yesterday. What you said concerning yourself is as a result of the kind of people you surround yourself with and the kind of views they have towards life. To be a true success in life,you have to invest your mind,your thought and your time so IF YOU WANT TO BE SUCCESSFUL,YOU NEED TO BE ACUTELY AWARE OF WHO YOU ARE SPENDING YOUR TIME WITH. This should be a very crucial consideration because WHO YOU SPEND YOUR TIME WITH DETERMINES ALOT ABOUT YOU WITHOUT YOU EVEN KNOWING IT.

YOUR UNIQUE TALENTS

Every human is unique in his or her own way, alot of talents are in each and every one of us, it is left to us to discover it and make the utmost use of it. There is a lot of untapped potentials in each and everyone of us. The special   creativity that is embedded in one person is not the same with the creativity of another person but alot of us don't believe in ourselves and say "I don't think I can do it" or "This is meant for the more educated peoole" but you know within yourself that you can do it but you do not believe in yourself. EVERYBODY IS CREATIVE BUT ALOT OF PEOPLE DON'T BELIEVE IN THEIR OWN CREATIVITY. Ask yourself this question " If I don't believe in myself,who will? " YOU HAVE TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF BEFORE OTHERS CAN BELIEVE IN YOU. BELIEVE IN YOUR OWN BRILIANCY.

BE SOMEBODY

Turn the negative words that were said concerning you into positivity. Never believe what anybody said to you that is not align with the word of God in your life. Negative words might have been said to you at one point in your life but don't allow it to stick on and make you think of yourself as a lesser human being. What was said concerning you is not your responsibility but it is your responsibility if you allow it to dictate the direction your life goes. BE SOMEBODY! Remember GOD NEVER TAKES TIME TO BUILD A NOBODY. EVERYBODY GOD CREATES IS CREATED TO BE SOMEBODY.