BE WISE WHEN CHOOSING YOUR FRIENDS

Sometimes when you are in a dark place,you may think you have been buried but actually you have been planted

When you are in a dark place,that is when you know who and what you mean to people...There are people that are in your life because of what they get and benefit from you  and there are those that genuinely love you but they are very few...The ones that are with you for their benefit alone are going to think your darkness means you have been buried and nothing else can come out of you and they will want nothing to the with you and they will run as fast as their physical and spiritual legs can carry them

The ones that genuinely love you are the people you see in your dark stage,they might not even know you are just being buried and your blooming days is just ahead of you but they will be there with you every step of the way.

They are the ones that are watering you in your planting stage so you can blossom into the best of you yet...don’t forget to keep these ones near because they are the ones that are truly your friend...

But the truth is most of our friends(>80%) will leave.Even the ones you never thought could do so might be the first one to leave because it’s no longer convenient for them to be your friend...Always use your planting period to knowwho and what you mean to people because they might come back with one flimsy excuse as to why they did what they did just because you are now in your blooming period and they are back for your fruits

BE WISE WHEN CHOOSING YOUR FRIENDS 

BACK AFTER ALL

The last time I posted was almost three years ago...A lot has happened during this period but it’s all been for a reason and for one lesson or the other.Sometimes,am on my writing pad and I wanted to write so much but my emotions were so much and too high to write one thing or the other and I even wanted to start putting my words on a video since I couldn’t write them and there was a day I was all dressed up and I was in my office ready for the shoot but I was still in a place where I couldn’t do it but all in all,it’s been a beautiful and wonderful three years because at the end of it all there is a light...So no matter what you are going through or no matter how hard you think it is,there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.